REJOICE!

My mother had just died. We were sitting the "family room" at the hospital. Overcome by a sorrow none of us had ever felt before, my youngest sister said, "I've got something to tell you and I think I was supposed to tell you sooner. " As she, Carly (her oldest child) and Daddy, rushed from the Laurens County Hospital to Richland Memorial some 70ish miles away behind a screaming ambulance, my sister heard these words loud and clear: "This is the day the Lord has made, I will rejoice and be glad in it." At the same time she heard these rather misplaced words of God, they were speeding by the Newberry exit, where our mother had gone into a fatal cardiac arrest. Over and over in the months since our precious Momma died, we have been challenged to, "Rejoice". How do you rejoice in the middle of the deepest sorrow you've ever felt? How? And yet, God keeps revealing to each of us that REJOICE is exactly what we must do. One week before my mother's death, I felt an insatiable need to find out all I could about Heaven. Even though Momma was very sick, I didn't have any idea the next week we would say our Earthly good-byes to her. It didn't occur to me at the time but God was getting me ready for her passing. I read two books. One was "To Heaven and Back" by Dr. Mary C. Neal, MD. The other was by Dr. Eben Alexander, called "Proof of Heaven: A Neurosurgeon’s Journey into the Afterlife ". What I found in Dr. Neal's book was a beautiful story of hope from a Christian's point of view. From Dr. Alexander's book I gleaned insight into death from a medical viewpoint. Both books were helpful and God used Dr. Neal and Dr. Alexander's experiences of death, to once again, confirm His total love and peace to me. In Dr. Neal's book she states "joy is a state of mind and a state of being. It reflects a conscious choice to believe in the promises of the Bible. After her death experience and she was recuperating from massive injuries sustained in a kayaking accident, one of the verses that came to her was, "Rejoice always." 1 Thess 5:16. In pain and broken, Dr. Neal heard God speak plainly. "REJOICE." A few weeks ago while I was visiting with my father, I found yet another gift my mother left behind. While flipping through her tattered and worn bible, I found this verse yet again. She had it dog eared: "Rejoice always". My mother believed the words of God and His command to rejoice even in the midst of great physical pain. My family has had our faith challenged through our sorrow but all of us have been reassured that what we have in Christ is, indeed, real. And it's not only real but He has been teaching us to "REJOICE". In the middle of an unfathomably deep hurt and sorrow, we are experiencing joy. We are experience joy because we are experiencing God. Since Momma died, I've felt the need to read the words of Jesus beginning in John. Just last night I read these words, the recorded words of Jesus: "Do not let your hearts be distressed. You believe in God; believe also in me. There are many dwelling places in my Father's house. Otherwise, I would have told you, because I am going away to make ready a place for you. And if I go and make ready a place for you, I will come again and take you to be with me, so that where I am you may be too. And you know the way where I am going." Thomas said, "Lord, we don't know where you are going. How can we know the way? " Jesus replied, "I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me. If you have known me, you will know my Father too. And from now on you do know him and have seen him." John 14:14-7 My momma is now living that reality. Do I still grieve for her? Yes. Do I miss her? Yes. Do I long for her? Yes. But because of Jesus, I will see her again and so will my father, my brother and sisters. And because of Jesus, who he is and what he did...we can REJOICE! ” Rejoice in your hope, be patient in tribulation, be constant in prayer." Romans 12:12 (RSV)